Every conflict in a relationship is an opportunity to heal and connect more deeply.
My approach is candid, compassionate, and attuned to the nuances of each couple’s dynamic. I draw from Gottman Couples Method, Imago Therapy, and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy to create an honest, authentic, and empowering environment.
We revisit early childhood and the transition into adulthood. We build practical skills in communication techniques and emotional awareness. You learn how to repair trust, say what you mean, take responsibility for mistakes, and create an energizing relationship together.
I provide a non-judgmental space for couples to process conflict, navigate crises, and integrate new communication skills. People in relationships ranging from traditional heterosexual couples to queer partners find my work supportive and welcoming.
Premarital issues
Trouble talking about, or planning for, a future together
Co-parenting and childrearing, whether together or separated
Multi-ethnic or interracial relationships
Non-monogamy/polyamory related issues
Fights that don’t seem to resolve anything
Infidelity/betrayal of boundaries
Partners with very different styles of emotional expressiveness
Couples seek my help with:
You came to the right place if:
You or your partner are neurodivergent or process information differently, leading to challenges between you.
You are from different backgrounds, ethnicities, or were raised in very different families.
You are looking for a welcoming, compassionate space to work on communication issues and deepen intimacy.
You or your partner have experienced a significant spiritual awakening and your relationship needs space to process this.
Your relationship is facing a big transition (engagement, marriage, new child new job, family loss) and you need help with communication about feelings and expectations.
You embrace an alternative committed relationship structure (living separately, long-distance etc).
I offer 50 minute video sessions in English and Spanish for couples/relationships. This includes adult siblings, friends, parents and adult children, separated co-parents, etc.
The fee for couples sessions ranges from $180-$210 per session. **As of August 2024, I accept Aetna and Cigna insurance.
Both partners must reside in California.